However, sometimes women that can get pregnant at the drop of hat forget, that some women are not able to at all. And then their are women who don't want to have kids of their own because of the chance of a genetic disorder/disability being passed along. My heart hurts for any woman who would not get the chance to be a mother if she desires to be, I think things like this happen so that women can learn to be stronger. I as a surrogate would become stronger knowing that I am giving the gift of life to a deserving family, and the genetic parents are already SO SO strong, in the fact that they have overcome the idea of not being able to of children of their own and being able to ask someone else to help them.
Parenthood to me has been THE most rewarding gift I have ever received and I think any man or woman wanting a child deserves to experience the joy and laughter a child brings. Granite there are plenty of bad times, but the good out weights the bad, for sure!:)
Why I think I would make a good surrogate?
I have done my research for starters, I have an agency selected for when I decide I want to do it, which wont be until I am finished with school most likely. When someone hears that I dream about doing this one day, the next thing I hear is..wouldn't be too attached to the baby to give it away?...And the answer is no..this baby in no way shape or form would genetically be mine and I am very well aware of that. I actually am the exact opposite....the part I am most thrilled for is seeing the parents face as their sweet baby comes into this world!! I know how I felt the moment Ella and Eli were born and its a feeling only a mother and father know...I desire for people to feel that feeling(that want it of course)...its almost like a drug...weird comparison I know but it makes you feel SOOO amazing!!!
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